Dedicated to the memory of Gavriella Bader, z”l, a caring friend to my children and a beautiful human being. May her memory be a blessing, as her life was a blessing. Yaakov is inconsolable at what he thinks is his son Yosef’s death. His children come to comfort him and vayema’en lehitnahem, “he refuses to […]
ESSAY: Crying with the Inconsolable (Parashat Vayeshev) Read More »
This meditation is dedicated to the memory of Gavriella Bader, z”l, a caring friend to my children and a beautiful human being. May her memory be a blessing, as her life was a blessing, and may the family be comforted by God among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem. In this meditation we consider Yaakov’s
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It is partly the struggle that teaches us, the experience of standing face to face with some other, the experience of holding our own while another person holds their own. (Click image to read more)
ESSAY: Coming to Know Our Own Strength Through Wrestling (Parashat Vayishlach) Read More »
Yaakov needed this angel in order to learn that he was not small and insecure, as he thought, but strong and infinitely capable. In this meditation, we explore who these angels are inside us and how we can encounter them to know our own strength. (Click image to read more and listen)
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Yaakov suffers.. His is a hard lot, symbolized by the rock he puts his head on. He is born into strife with his brother, and it follows him into his marriages and family life. He works tirelessly only to be cheated by his father in law, and, ever lurking in the background, is a brother
QUICK THOUGHT: What Good Do Angels Do? (Parashat Vayetze) Read More »
Maybe our feelings are angels, divine messengers sent to help us heal and grow. This parsha begins with angels (the ones in Yaakov’s ladder dream), and it ends with angels. I’d like to focus on the less well known concluding angels. After Yaakov leaves Haran with his family to return home, Lavan chases him in
ESSAY: Our Feelings Are Angels (Parashat Vayetze) Read More »
In this meditation, we explore the story of the angels that appear to Yaakov at the end of the parsha and its relationship to the beginning of next week’s parsha, when Yaakov sends out messengers to make contact with Esav. We consider the idea that these angels may have been the uneasy feelings that Yaakov
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Sometimes we think, like Yaakov, that we have to pretend to be someone else in order to be blessed, in order to be loved, in order to be attended to. We dress ourselves up like the cool flashy kids who are big and strong and wear leather jackets and know how to hunt. We are
QUICK THOUGHT: Being Yourself (Parashat Toldot) Read More »
The parsha is full of fighting — fighting between Yaakov and Esav over the birthright and the blessing, and fighting between the shepherds of Gerar and the shepherds of Yitzhak over wells. Behind this fighting is a sense of scarcity of resources. In this meditation, we look inside to see what kinds of scarcity we
MEDITATION: On Scarcity and Spaciousness (Parashat Toldot) Read More »
(Originally published in 2020) I want to focus on one word in our parsha, Rechovot, “wide open spaces.” (Click image to read more)
ESSAY: On Divine Spaciousness: Offering it Back to Our Ancestors (Parashat Toldot) Read More »